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Before I met each man I would ask: They were looking to have any sex. I met one man whose wife had implicitly consented to her husband having a lover because she was no longer interested in sex, at all.

They both, to some degree, got what they needed without having to give up what they wanted. But the other husbands I met would have preferred to be having sex with their wives. At 49, I was just about there myself, and terrified of losing my desire for sex. So we have an imbalance, an elephant-size problem, so burdensome and shameful involved with married man can scarcely muster the strength to involved with married man about it.

I know I did, which is what led me down this path of illicit encounters. After all, nearly as many women are initiating affairs as men.

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Married sex, for them, often feels obligatory. An affair is adventure.

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He laughed. I never convinced any husband that he could be honest about what he was doing.

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But sex is basic. Physical intimacy with other human beings is essential to our health and well-being. So how do looking man deny such a need to the one we care about most?

Should we? We slept together maybe four times over a few years. It was a few months later, when David and I were in a relationship, involved with married man the guilt hit me.

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It launched itself at me quite unexpectedly as the reality of everyone's pain registered. I would never have fallen in love with you if my marriage had been strong.

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I can relate to. Telling my parents was hard marrier they were amazing in their response. Unfortunately, few other people were quite so accepting.

I didn't meet David's parents for years.

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Their loyalties were understandably torn. Mutual friends ignored us and acquaintances stopped smiling. But what I involved with married man didn't expect and what I haven't ever come to terms with was the blame directed at me. It felt as if people presumed that I had lured David away with a trap. I think they believed that if it wasn't for me he would have returned to his wife, blaming some sort of midlife crisis.

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I, conversely, was going through the best time of my life, having finally marrie someone I truly wanted to be.

I'd get angry that involved with married man I perceived as a marrued special time was marred by other people's disdain. And David would get angry that I wasn't being a little more understanding. He wanted to avoid people — Mqn wanted wives looking sex Tunbridge face them head on and show them that we were happy.

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The people who are important to us have adapted with the passage of time. I have a good relationship with David's parents now and when the unvolved visit we all get along really. Having said that, there are still "friends" who don't speak to us and there are others who openly admit that they have been asked not to by David's ex-wife.

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Without doubt, our relationship remains strong but that doesn't mean that it is problem free. Even all these years later, I still feel responsible. When I catch sight involvedd his ex-wife or the children pass comment about "old times", the guilt remains overwhelming.

I have no regrets. I firmly believe that we did the right thing. We could have lied, buried our feelings. But I believe that Involved with married man was entitled to take happiness when I found it.

People naturally look out for themselves and that is what I did in the end. Where would I have been if I had looked the other way? My principles might have been intact but I would involved with married man have been holding on to them .